CHANGE OF HEART

Okay hello, how are you all? I'm doing as well as can be expected. Had a good weekend. Attended poetry night at the loft. I actually did my first piece. I thought I would meet some new guys so that I would have something to talk about. To tell you the truth there were no hotties out that night. So instead of talking about someone new, I'll tell you about someone who I'm already seeing. I would like to get some feedback on how many people believe that long distance relationships don't work. Okay, u got me I'm seeing someone who lives out of state. We've been hitting it off for about 6 months to be exact. Ladies I have to be honest with you all. I knew from the first few conversations that I liked this guy. We women know these things early. We just wait for you men to catch up with us. I know he likes me alott but I don't think he's ready for anything serious. See this is the part where the denial comes in. It would really hurt if your saying these things and some lady comes along gets ur guy that you've been trying so hard to commit and makes him hubby. Now what do you do next? I'll tell you what you do. After giving him a piece of your mind you go to the next and move on. Tell that man don't call my phone because I'm out looking for love, will return shortly. So me and my guy have taken trips to see one another. We even went out of the country together already. I'm really liking this guy. To bring you up to speed I have had some personal money issues going on. I had began to lose interest in my guy because I didn't want to invest my time in someone who won't be there for me in hard times and vice verca. My motto is if your dating a guy you never ask for money. A real man knows. If he doesn't take any interest in your life than he's not the guy for you. This goes for men as well. A woman should be an addition in your life for the better. So my guy comes to me and say's "I know your going through some things and I'm not deaf. Even though your not asking me for money, I hear you. When I get some extra money I will help you out." I had a change of heart all of a sudden. I thought this guy was playing oblivious to the fact I hit a bad patch in my life. I wanted him to be concerned and I thought he wasn't and I was starting to distance myself. To my surprise he was paying attention all along. Ladies what do you think? Well until next time, I'M OUT LOOKING FOR LOVE, WILL RETURN SHORTLY.